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Tuesday, December 15, 2015

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I'm tired. Busy schoolweek.

If I don't reply to your comments, don't think I'm ignoring you. I read what you comment. It's just that I can't really think of anything to say as a response. Something that's more than just an "okay". Because you deserve better. But I'm at a loss of words for what to say.

I love how people compliment and appreciate my artwork (drawings and writings), even though I repeatedly tell them they suck. Really boosts my confidence hearing that from my friend in class today. She's a great friend.

I love how I have people in my life that remind myself that I have some hope and talent. They remind me that I under-appreciate and downgrade myself. Heck, my self-esteem and self-confidence aren't all too good. Pretty bad, actually. But hearing that I'm worth something, it really does mean a lot to me.

Not saying that you guys on the internet have no affect on me. You guys do. It's just different and closer and just more meaningful hearing those words from those you care so much about in real life.

To be honest, I'm beginning to feel uneasy here. In real life, it's so much more simpler. Online, it's a different story. No matter what I say, I think I dramatize it too much. My feelings, what I say about them, I feel like part of me is lying to you. I don't know if thinking like that is actually making things worse, my mind worse. I don't know what I feel, to tell you the truth. Like I said, I'm nothing. I'm just pathetic old me.

When I say don't feel sorry for me, I kinda still want you to. I'm sorry I can't let you guys realize that I want your comforting messages but not your pity. Just don't waste your time on pathetic old me. Please.

I'm fine, I'm not fine.. heck, I don't even know anymore. So of course neither can you. I can't help feeling this way. About all of this.

You won't ever understand me. Stop trying already. There's no point in trying. Stop assuming you know how I feel. Because you don't. Sometimes I have bad days. And I post. And guess what? I don't feel any better after reading your understanding sympathy. It makes me feel worse and more guilty.

I mainly wrote that post yesterday because I'm guilty over all these lies I've been giving you. I regret them. It's a circle of misery.

Screw any typos here. It's late, I'm tired and frustrated, and I just don't care anymore.

Being on here just isn't fun like it used to. Every time I post nowadays, I'm just forcing me to. Same with replying with comments. Commenting in general. Here, those other sites you know me on, everywhere. It isn't you, it's me. Some days, just going online and seeing you left a comment for me, it tires me out. I don't hate you. It's just tiring.

Everything's tiring, to be honest. Every other day, I come home from school just wanting to sleep. With my cats, with my dog.

There's something wrong with me. Yeah, I know that. Can't you tell from my posts how damaged I am inside? Can't you tell I'm impossible to read, to get to know? Can't you tell from my constantly changing thoughts and feelings about myself? Of course there's something wrong.

A few weeks ago, I honestly thought I chose to feel like this. That I was lying about things. Now maybe I'm not. I'm not exaggerating anymore. During bad times, I feel like it. Maybe that's why I was exaggerating before. I can't help feeling this way that's confusing as heck. I'm okay. At the same time, I'm not okay. And vice versa.

Screw this freaking post. Just some crap.

Screw this. I can barely take it anymore. I know you're all tired of this. I've been exhausted way longer. I know I sound like a cry baby in these posts. I know all of this. Way before you ever did.

Screw this, I'm out.

~ Cutepups

21 comments:

  1. pathetic old 'me' is awesome! Okay bye.

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  2. why would you lie about it in the first place? either way, no one really knows how other people around them feel. you need to get out of this mindset of, "feel sorry for me, but don't feel sorry for me" and then continuing on pitying yourself. it doesn't work like that. you can let something out but if you're just looking for attention, people might just give up on you. don't tire yourself out. you can be angry or sad or whatever about something but don't drag everyone down with you. you're meant to make things better but instead, you make it worse. i am generalising, not only about you
    just advice, maybe if you want to take it from me, an anon. im not hating, i really like you but its common sense, really

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    1. ...... I have a feeling that you are RainbowPegasus.... she was never really nice to cutepups when she made these kind of posts. why are you hiding now?

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    2. Hmmmm, I meant that I think I'm making it sound like it's a bigger problem when it really isn't. Idk, it just makes me feel guilty about posting these feelings and makes me (probably you too.. idk) seem like an edgy cry baby. And saying I have those mental illnesses without being diagnosed by an actual doctor for them. That's what I meant by me feeling like I'm constantly lying to you guys. But when I post about what I do, I'm telling the truth. And for the rest, I know you're right (again..?).

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    3. Was rushing typing that other comment lol. I meant that I probably seem like an edgy cry baby in my posts now, and that maybe you see me that way as well. *shrugs*

      And at the other Anon: I know how Rainbow speaks when she comments. The other Anon doesn't sound like her, so I doubt Anon's Rainbow. I think I might know who (s)he is though, but I'm not gonna say.

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    4. i'm not being mean although i'm also not being nice. its just straightforward

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    5. i'm not being mean although i'm also not being nice. its straightforward that's all

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    6. @Anon: Excuse me? I use capital letters here.

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    7. @ Rainbow:
      Haha, that's how I know it wasn't you.

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  3. It's okay if you leave. I mean, if it makes you feel better. You can just start over...even if it makes me sad. It's okay that I'm not too important. Slowly, you're drifting farther away from me... I don't want you to force yourself. Quit your blog if it makes you suffer. Quit everything if it makes you tired

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    1. I just have to find my happiness and purpose in blogging again. Because I lost that now, obviously. Might take frequent blogging breaks, but I doubt I'll just quit the blog. In a year or two, not so sure though.. because, life. Besides, I'll regret it later if I just quit everything now. And I like communicating with you.. most of the time, anyways.

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  4. So Sit Down, Grab Some Popcorn, Honey and enjoy the movies as Winnie the Pooh and his friends go into new worlds outside of Disney studios and the 100 Acre Wood where they will meet new friends, battle bitter enemies, and save the world at the same time.

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    1. ... um, no offense, but what does this have to do with anything in my post?

      Though, even now, Winnie the Pooh and friends stuff is cute and makes me slightly happy and nostalgic.

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  5. Did you hear about RosyStar AJ?

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    1. Yes, there was a post about it in my Blogger Dashboard. And then I saw her friend's video on what happened. I never heard of her until today though. (Great, sad things, great :c)

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    2. Never mind. I feel disgusted about it.

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