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Sunday, December 6, 2015

Clarification Shiz

Hey guys. First off, sorry if I seem annoyed in this post. (*cough* crappy phone camera, irl drama with friends *cough*) yeah...

So anyway, I've been trying for the past few days to, you know, think more positive things. And just be happy.

Yeah, doing that does help me to feel better. But, actually, it's hard. To, you know, always think about the positive side of things.

I wasn't lying. I still mess up. I still stress out about things that aren't that much of a deal. I still can't help feeling anxious that I mess up everything I do. I hate knowing that I never know what to say- to anyone.

I feel lonely and awkward when I'm alone and away from other people. I feel stupid and awkward when I'm around other people. No matter what, I feel awkward. Socially awkward, to be more specific.

It's so freaking annoying when you know you can't decently socialize with anyone (and I mean anyone)! It's hard to ignore the fact that so many people (including friends or whatever) laugh and make jokes about how awkward and quiet you are! It's hard to ignore the fact that you stutter whenever you talk! It's hard to ignore the fact that you're public speaking to members of Congress on Monday and feeling really anxious about doing that even though you haven't went through all the committees and wrote the speech yet!

Guys, avoiding looking in their eyes doesn't help solve much. The thing is, I constantly fear I'm gonna make a mistake, or stutter, whenever I'm publicly presenting. And having to do this in a professional manner in front of some US senators and other members of Congress.. the thought unsettles me. And add the fact that literally everyone else in this group program thing is loud and outgoing and such extroverts while I'm the opposite of all that.. it sucks.

Wait, no. It's not a fear of messing up. I know for a fact I mess up. It's so much easier to think about all the negative things than the positive ones. I know what the positives are, but I don't know if they're just pretending to tolerate me. I'm as quiet and boring as a white wall. I know what the negative ones are as well, by the way.

Oh and no. I can't just go out and explain why I feel like this. I can't freaking talk casually without stressing out in my head on how awkward I must be (anxietyyy).

I feel like I can only be real with you guys. You friendly strangers across the internet, across the world. Just venting and posting this online makes me feel more real than with anyone I speak with irl. Because I can't put into words what I'm exactly feeling.

I'm nothing. Good night. <3

7 comments:

  1. "I'm nothing."

    There's a saying that says, "When you keep in believing it, it becomes real".
    If you want to be someone.
    Someone.
    Believe you can.

    What makes us real without our real-life friends? Isn't the real life where we struggle and be who we are?

    Wake up, S!
    You know this well; you know your situation.
    Doesn't it make you aware as a person?

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  2. [gets out gear] Is it just me? Am I the only one tired of commenters not even very much trying to help you or anything? I don't want to offend anyone....but......lol I am protective of cutepups so please, be like friends and help her out or try to at least do more than one more word comments.......if I was Cutepups I would be very tired of having no one to turn to..........
    anyways. Cutepups <3 I missed your posts! I'm becoming happier now so maybe I can comment more b/c I'm tired of no one commenting here without a bigger purpose (why am I getting annoyed? idk.) But anxiety....well, the thing is that you can't really help that..... because it doesn't go away unless you deal directly with the problem. (well, pretty much after you get rid of it.) And even if you practice, it's still gonna be hard. I bet I would be really nervous too. (If you already know me....well....yea)(I never can think of what to say to you..ugh) The only thing that would really help with that, in my experience, is practicing in front of someone (I don't like that, so I use objects and stuff ovo) and I guess just falling back kinda on the thing that your friends or people will do part of the speech qvq I wish I could talk to you and I want to do it without you feeling like you have to say anything special to me... cus I'm human like you too qvq please don't be too sad... eventually you'll come back home and be able to talk to me...us...more QuQ It's okay not to feel happy all the time. It's not your obligation QvQ you don't have to be like anyone else to be great

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    1. Oh uhhhh. Sorry.

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    2. No it's okay (I'm the same person QvQ) You don't have to apoligize. I'm not saying it's bad to do that.....uh....sometimes I just feel like Cutepups gets ignored and that's all QvQ

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    3. Thanks Reachie. Haha, you're pretty right about that. Irrelevant, one-sentence/word comments do bug me a little. But whatever.
      I typed up my part of the speech last night, and I'm presenting it in a few hours. So having the last-minute anxiety of presenting.. great e.e . But hey, at least I know what I'm doing and how now (I was anxious about that too).

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